Not so bad - it costs the same to change the tethered lead as to buy another fly lead, and at some point you'll want the higher charge rate and the cost of upgrading 3kW to 7kW is much higher than the initial premium.
I can't see why the 80 Amp main fuse should be a problem, but have you investigated whether you can get a free upgrade? PodPoint are capable of load restricting so even if not you can live within the limit.