Just in case anyone is still interested, I'm still playing around with the ETEK EVSE module. I now have it pretty much working as a smart charge point, using Home Assistant to locally control charge times and charge current. I've found I can get a good enough WiFi signal where the thing is going to be located, so I'm controlling the EVSE module directly from a cheap ESP8266, with an RS485 module. The photo below is my test setup, just to see whether I can control the EVSE and change it's advertised charge current OK:
The black box to the lower left is just a vehicle simulator, so I can check that the charge point responds correctly to normal requests for charge, faults in the cable, etc. It's set to signal to the charge point that a vehicle is plugged in and that it's requesting a charge.
The enclosure is roughly EO Mini size I think, it's an IP66 Hylec DIN rail box that is 120mm wide, 175mm high and 100mm deep:
Hylec DN15E Grey General Purpose ABS Enclosure 100x125x175mm Grey Lid that cost ÂŁ11.72, plus VAT and postage.
The EVSE module is this one:
https://www.aliexpress.com/i/1005004512138683.html that cost ÂŁ33.99 inc VAT & shipping.
The ESP8266 and RS485 module, that runs ESPHome and connects the EVSE to Home Assistant is this unit:
Epever RS485 to wifi adaptor v1.7 that cost ÂŁ11.95 plus postage
The contactor is probably overkill, it's a Schneider Acti 9 40A DP unit:
Schneider Acti 9 iCT A9C20842 40 Amp 2NO 2 Pole 220/240V 50Hz Contactor | Electrical Discounted Supplies that cost ÂŁ35.35 + VAT and postage. There are undoubtedly cheaper options around, but I happened to have this one sat on the shelf. A better (as in much cheaper) option might be this 32A one:
WCED 2 Pole 230V 32A NO Normally Open AC Modular Contactor at only ÂŁ5.99 + VAT and postage.
You'll also need cable glands, Wagos, terminal blocks and a few bits and bobs like the butchered Ethernet cable used to connect the ESP8266 and RS485 module to the ETEK. Luckily the ETEK has a 5V 100mA supply which seems fine when running the ESP8266. Fortunate, as it saves having to add a separate 5V supply.
The current state of play is that I have Home Assistant controlling the charge point, so I can turn it on or off, or set the charge current, from any device in the house that has a web browser. The next stage is to create a couple of Home Assistant automations, one to turn the charge point on and off at max power during the off-peak period, the other to automatically control the charge current when there is excess PV generation. I also need to 3D print a bracket to hold the ESP8266 board to the DIN rail.
Total cost of the bits I've used is around ÂŁ140, but I think it should be easy to get this down to around ÂŁ120, perhaps slightly less, by shopping around.