There are open source hardware options, like OpenEVSE mentioend above, plus there are hardware options that can very easily be controlled using home automation systems like Home Assistant with ESPHome (open source). Ecoharmony (member here) make controllers than can very easily be integrated into any open source control system. I have one of their earlier EVSE modules, that only has control via an analogue connection. I control it with an ESP8266 and a D to A converter and that allows the charge point to be turned on and off and the charge current to be controlled on the fly very easily. The ESP8266 is running ESPHome and connects seamlessly to Home Assistant, so putting together your own preferred automation to control the charge point is pretty easy - no coding needed.
I have mine set with the option of timed charging, to fit in with the off-peak periods, and solar charging, that optimises any excess PV generation, a bit like the Zappi. I also used to use the state of charge of the battery in the I Pace as a way to set charge limits (to avoid always charging to 100%) but JLR decided to stop any third party access via their API to block this (one reason I got rid of that car).
There are a lot of people developing their own solutions, Github seems awash with them, but I've found Home Assistant and ESPHome to be very well supported by the community and there are more and more manufacturers including Home Assistant integrations as an option, so my guess is that it won't be long before we have more charge point integration options. One major problem is that these are potentially illegal in the UK, because of the way the smart charge point regulations are framed.
The government does not want people to have total local control of their charge points, they want them to be able to be controlled by the electricity distribution network. Right now there's enough wiggle room in the regulations to disable this functionality without fear of redress, but if I had to guess then I'd say that the regulations might well get tightened if this becomes a widespread thing. Of course, charge point manufacturers choosing to deliberately turn off the government-mandated smart functionality could be one of the trigger factors for tightening the legislation.